Why interpersonal skills may be more important now.
While perusing the online versions of some of the more well-know information technology journals recently, I was surprised to find one that had quite a few stories on the stupidity of users. While these stories ostensibly were presented as humor, they also represent a dark side of IT behavior: The IT guys really are the smartest guys in the room, and users are dumb and annoying.
A closer reading of some of the stories shows the fallacy of this: Users were having problems, and the IT person was more concerned with showing his superiority than in providing customer service. This type of stereotypical behavior has long been an impediment to IT's success and acceptance in the corporate world.
The good news is that this attitude among IT workers isn't nearly as prevalent as it used to be. We've made great strides in improving customer service. These stories, however, show that our job is not complete. There is more to do.
The biggest part of developing the right attitude is realizing that it isn't all about us. The IT guys really may be the smartest guys in the room, but nobody cares. It is more about what gets done than about what you know. It is more about making the team (IT and business) successful than it is about individual accolades.
Information technology has become more self service. It used to be that you had to get everything through the IT department. IT built the databases, and you could only get the data out or get it analyzed by asking IT to do it for you.
Over time, the role of IT has shifted from knowledge provider to knowledge facilitator. We no longer extract and analyze data. Instead we provide tools enabling users to do this themselves.
With this shift in roles, IT support must shift from doing to enabling. This means IT has to focus on understanding the user's needs and providing training and tools. It also means understanding the business in order to suggest ways to use technology that meets needs. It involves, dare I say it, empathy, a word not always associated with IT.
Being successful in this role depends on personal skills, such as:
- Being a good listener to learn what the user needs and a willingness to listen completely without jumping in with the answer.
- Being a good interviewer to draw information from our users.
- Being good at explaining and teaching.
These skills can be as important and perhaps more important than raw technical skills.
Accordingly we, as IT leaders, need to change our perspective. We need to work to develop these skills in our people. Technical ability alone is no longer enough. We cannot continue to hire people and do personnel evaluations based solely on technical skills. Likewise, the training we provide has to go beyond just technical training.
When we do personnel evaluation or are hiring, we should include our user community in the process. Having our users interview candidates can provide some useful feedback on how the candidate relates to people outside IT, how well they communicate, how well they listen.
Users also can provide valuable insight into just how good our customer service really is. Getting this insight is extremely important for personnel evaluations. Perhaps we should rate this just as highly as technical skills.
If we expect people to change, we also have to help them. Rather than sending people to a software conference or the latest programming class, perhaps we should send them to classes on team dynamics or finance for non-financial people.
As the role of IT has shifted over time, the skills of our people need to shift, and we as IT leaders need to be actively involved in making this happen.
This article is also posted on Forbes.com. Feel free to join in the discussion either on this site or at Forbes.com
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Very true. Perhaps the problem is due to the tendency of technology careers to attract people who were the "awkward nerds" in high school. Once they gain power over users, it"s difficult for some to not extract revenge for past mistreatment on innocent users.
Posted by: Anjuan Simmons | November 11, 2009 at 06:37 AM
Anjuan
While the "revenge of the nerds" scenario is possible I don't think (or at least hope) that is too common. In most cases in terms of "nerdiness" it may be that IT naturally attract people that are more comfortable with the exact nature of IT (binary thinking one or zero) as opposed to dealing with the more vague concepts and traits in dealing with people. Thanks for the comment.
Mike
Posted by: Mike | November 11, 2009 at 11:50 AM
Mike,
A long (and I mean LOOONNNNGGGG! ;-) time ago, a mentor from early in my career taught me that there is no point in pointing fingers and assigning blame while the ship is going down because all that does is detract from fixing the hole in the side of the ship. As a result, I learned to view everyone between me and the ultimate end user as "my customer" and to assume that, although my customer may not be able to express him/herself in the most IT literate terminology, my customer is to be satisfied and served to the best of my ability and my customer should leave the experience, if at all possible, with a "good feeling" about themselves and IT. This may take my being extremely patient and tolerant but that is how I would want to be treated, so that is how I treat them. This may require my being willing to swallow my comments when my customer tells me that I have done it wrong, again, but that is my customer's perception, so that is my customer's reality.
This is not to say that I will always accept all of the blame for projects that go awry or for problems that arise; however, this does mean that I make sure that my part of the task is completed correctly before I pursue the errors that my customers may or may not have made. If I find that I have made an error, I confess to it; if I find that my customers have made an error, I try to make sure that they are no more embarrassed by it than is necessary.
In the end, if my customers are happy and their work is easier to complete, then I have succeeded in my job. If I succeed in my job, not only do I get to keep it but I can mitigate the general unhappiness that everyone seems to have with IT. If I can mitigate that unhappiness, then IT and the Business side of the house can better collaborate and the business can better grow . . . I, hopefully, I can get better raises. ;-) (Yeah, I'm not totally altruistic! ;-)
Respectfully,
Ralph D. Wilson II
Posted by: Ralph D. Wilson II | November 14, 2009 at 09:05 AM
Ralph,
Good points - in the end IT is no different than any other business - it's all about the customer.
Mike
Posted by: Mike | November 14, 2009 at 09:18 AM
Great read Mike. It's always difficult to focus on enabling rather than doing! While I've never thought of it quite in those terms, your explanation is quite appropriate. For years, we were taught that control was everything - and that's a tough shift to make. Fortunately, I have a relatively young staff and we're all working on this shift together: I still think they will get the hang of it faster than I will!
Respectfully,
-Chris Nelson
Posted by: twitter.com/LimitedWisdom | November 17, 2009 at 11:53 AM
Chris,
Thanks for the comment. Change is never easy nor comfortable but it is the nature of our job. In this case it is IT that has to change rather than IT helping others to change. It will be an interesting journey.
Mike
Posted by: Mike | November 18, 2009 at 07:55 AM